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When you’re unemployed, one of your biggest fears is being judged by others.
Weiss says to encourage your guy to get creative without breaking the bank.
After all, there are many opportunities for low to no cost dates."A homemade meal and a Netflix movie, a picnic in the park, a free outdoor movie--things like that.
I mean, Cuffing season may be close to ending, but the mood to snuggle with your love during sweater weather is forever.
As Valentine’s Day is coming in hot, time to blow a kiss goodbye to your candy necklaces and paper hearts! It might be too late for you to pick out the perfect gift for your bae irl.Here are some non-kiddie Valentine’s Day jewelry brands that you need to check out. Shopping at real stores is tedious, you have to put pants on, and half the time they don’t even have anything good. Money is tight and dating is expensive, especially now that you’ve got bills to pay.When it comes to dating, that fear can be amplified.